I was recently asked why I have my role set to “evolving” and not “sub.”
The fun answer:
I saw “evolving” in the list and thought it made me sound like a Pokemon, so I went with it.
The sufficient answer:
My profile is about me. My submission is about me in the context of my relationship with Sir. Yes he is an incredibly important part of my life, but a crucial aspect of my self-image is to define myself by myself alone, and not by my relationship with another person.
The philosophical answer:
I am a very “meta” person; I’m always trying to look at the big picture. I know that I will always be changing, so in a way, it’s pointless to define myself as anything other than evolving. I may not always be submissive. Hell, I might not always be kinky. But I will always be evolving.
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