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Kinky scenes full of blurry Cybermen

(Or, what I’m thinking about at 3 AM the day after Christmas.  I promise that the following makes absolute sense.)

You see someone online and you find them physically attractive.  How quickly do you go from “this person is pretty” to “I would like to mash my genitals into this person”?

I am so incredibly curious about this.  I addressed this earlier, in a more poetic form, here.

From what I’ve witnessed, the answer is all over the place.  At one end of the spectrum there is no transition, the thoughts are one in the same (let’s call this 0).  At the other end, there is no causal relationship between the two thoughts (this is 10).  And in between, of course, you have varying degrees of the first thought leading to the second.

Personally, I float around the higher digits.  I hardly ever (almost never) have a sexual urge for a person purely based on their pictures.  And what I mean by that is that my lady parts aren’t getting wet for a hot guy’s profile.  When I do find a guy who is physically attractive to me, my strongest urge is to figure out if he’s a dipshit or not.  If I can get some evidence that he’s a decent person, then I will give my lady bits permission to dampen.

So, because I’m at one end of the spectrum, I’m fascinated by people who seem to be at the other end.  The most extreme are the “here’s what I’ll do to you” kind of people.  Not only do they get physically aroused by someone’s photos, but they come up with elaborate sexual fantasies, complete with excruciating detail.  This is so bewildering to me.  I’ve never come close to doing anything like that.

I’ve come up with a theory though.  When I hear about what people want to do to me, I’m pretty confident that they aren’t actually talking about me.  They have the fantasy all worked out and they are just looking for someone to fill the role.  Remember when the Cybermen came down to Earth in Army of Ghosts?  How they first appeared in that fuzzy ghost form?  When I attempt to get into the mind of these people, I see kinky scenes full of blurry Cybermen.  But like, not actual Cybermen, just stand-ins for people because they haven’t found the appropriate actors yet. (Or maybe actual Cybermen, I’m sure that has to be a thing.  Cyber gangbang?  Yeah, that’s definitely a thing.)

I’m always a bit thrown off by someone asking me what my fantasies are, because I’m expected to answer in fuzzy ghost format.  “I want to find someone who will ____ my ____.”  And then they’ll be like, “I can ____ your ____!” and everything will be awesome.  But I don’t think that way.  My fantasies are person-centric, not act-centric.  I find someone I like, and then I start fantasizing about things I want to do with that specific person.  No fuzzy ghosts for me.

So maybe the spectrum I introduced earlier isn’t as wide as I originally proposed.  Maybe fuzzy ghost fantasies sound more extreme to me simply because they involve fuzzy ghosts.  And to be honest, Cybermen are kinda freaky.  Personally I’ve always been partial to Daleks…

Categories: BDSM Dating Online Relationships Sex

Miss Skaro

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