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Here’s how this works.  You probably want to ask me a lot of generic, get-to-know-you questions.  I get that.  But see, I have much better things to do with my time than answer the same questions over and over again.  I like being efficient.  I’ve put these quick answers in one central repository so you can reference them at your leisure.  If you wish to expand on something I’ve written here, then that would be a good way to start a conversation.   


I’m Jessica.

I’m half Filipina, half Caucasian.

What do you do?
Software development.  Small company, not one of the giants.

Eastern Washington University.  Computer Science and Psychology.

Watching gaming videos on YouTube.  Sometimes actually playing games myself.
Writing.  Painting.  Yoga.  Meditation.
Taking thousands of naughty selfies.
Fucking (with) people.

Are you a Doctor Who fan?
Duh.  I watch other shows too.

How about music?
I used to play clarinet and sax.
I never know how to describe what I like to listen to, and I never listen to the radio so I never know what’s current.  So…yeah.  This is a terrible answer.

I see you have tattoos…
Yep.  Four currently.  The big one on my thigh is the Assassin’s Creed symbol.

…and I love your piercings!
Thanks! So do I!

What are you looking for?
People who are worth my time.  That can mean different things depending on the situation.  I don’t care for vapid relationships.  I actually thoroughly enjoy my own company and I’m perfectly content not having people around just to have them around.
When I am considering someone, I’m divided between two categories: casual sex or kinky exploration.  I’m interested in both, but the overlap is a particularly sensitive area that I won’t readily wade into.

What’s your type?
Tall, lean, fit, healthy, intelligent, professional.

Does size matter?
Yes. Please stop asking me this.  (But hey, here’s the kicker: I’m not really into BBC.  Go figure.)

You call yourself Miss…are you a Domme?
Nope!  I don’t think I could top to save my life.  Having a “title” in my name is about respect, not position or role.

So you’re a sub then.
I am my Sir’s sub, but I don’t regard myself as a submissive.  My submission is for him, not for the rest of the world.

I hate degradation.  No triggers or anything.  I just want to feel good.  And I want to feel good directly, not in a circular, you’ll-feel-it-later sort of way.
I’m not super masochistic.  I like a little bit of impact, but I’m not interested in turning completely black and blue.
I don’t like gags…I had this gigantic orthodontic monstrosity in my mouth for a while and it would occasionally lock my mouth open.  It was a horrific feeling.

Can we be play partners?
Well, maybe.  You have to actually interest me.  I’m not in need of anyone, so if you don’t hold my attention, you won’t have much luck.

Will you Skype me?

Can I have your Kik?

How are you today?
Fuck you.  (Sorry, I meant to say, “I’m fine how are you?”)

Why do you come off as such an unfriendly, cocky asshole sometimes?
It’s all part of my charm.  You’re just not receptive.





1 reply

  1. Hey Jessica,

    First of all, I want to say you are a talented writer (tbh very surprised knowing you are a programmer, because I am one too). Anyways, I came across your blog in the wide world of Internet and I have to say I became a fan and binge-read all your posts. I would say my favorites are the ones about communication, fantasies and oh the “why are you not married yet” , I can totally relate with that.(although I would have liked if you avoided the “Y” and “U”). I liked most of your writings, except for the “Princess Vathari”. You have a gripping opening to most of your writings and keep the reader engaged, but not in this one (I am Sorry :()

    With that out of the way, I am Chris, an engineering graduate, working in IT (same ol’ same ol’). I just thought I should say hi to you appreciating your work. Get back to me if you would like to talk. You know how to get to me.

    Btw, before I finish, out of all your writings, “I have to want you to know me…this is the hardest part” this is my favorite. It has so much meaning to it, I love that line.

    Cheers! Keep writing!!


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