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Blueberry Pancakes (an analogy)

Let’s say I like blueberry pancakes (I do, for what it’s worth).  I might share a few stories about some amazing breakfasts I’ve had.  I might boast about my mouth-watering homemade recipe.  I might spam your feed (lol food references) with photos of the best looking pancakes you’ve ever seen.  […]

Show Me Your Tact

Considering all the bad messages I’ve collected, the one trait they have in common is lack of tact.  Allow me to define this magical word: Tact (noun): a keen sense of what to say or do to avoid giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations. a keen sense […]

Context makes such a difference!

I have a profile on a hookup site where I don’t mention anything about being kinky.  The other day I received this message: Submissive, if you are willing to come to Arizona and to experience the biggest and longest black cocks we meet in this lifestyle with me as your […]

Do you think I want to play with you?

To all the people who ask me to play without even introducing themselves, do you think I want to play with you? This isn’t some highbrow statement or a rhetorical question.  I’m asking you to really think about it.  Put yourself in my place.  Assume the presence of another human […]

I want to want it

About two months ago I announced my return to the casual scene.  I went there, I met some people, and I came back out.  I think I feel most comfortable on the fringe of that society.  Occasionally I might dip in to check if there’s anything new and interesting floating […]