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When I’m asked what my fantasies are, my initial reaction is to come up with some sort of “standard” answer.  People have rape fantasies right?  Am I into that?  I think about it for a bit…I guess I could be.  People fantasize about being taken in an alley at night, […]

I will use you.

Fair warning to anyone who attempts a relationship with me: I am going to use you. Let’s say you are my newest acquaintance.  We’ve been chatting some, and maybe we have plans to meet in the near future.  You wanna know what I’m doing during that time?  A nice person […]

Why couples?

For the past few months I’ve been pondering why I’m drawn to couples.  It started as little more than an idea that might be fun to try once or twice.  But then I actually started meeting them.  And I started liking it.  And now I can say that I’m much […]

The worst thing you could do

…is tell me I’m important and then act otherwise. Nothing gets me going more than when you tell me I mean something to you.  When you say you miss me.  When you check up on me just because.  I want to know that you’re thinking of me, because I’m thinking […]


Note: My usual sarcasm and wit will return after this post. TL;DR: Sad shit. “Say Something” – A Great Big World  Say something, I’m giving up on you I’ll be the one if you want me to Anywhere I would’ve followed you Say something, I’m giving up on you And […]

On Orgasms

Dear Sir, I knew this subject would come up eventually.  You want to know what my buttons are.  That’s easy enough to tell you.  However the more challenging part will be explaining why pushing said buttons doesn’t always produce the desired effect. So let’s get the simple part out of […]


Dear Sir, The following is my attempt at describing my expectations for our relationship.  I hope that this promotes questions and further discussion.  I am of course open to revision and suggestions in all sections barring removal of items Section A: Hard Limits. Sections A, B, and C  are composed […]

Standards, Part 2

How could I possibly sleep around as much as I do and claim that I have standards?  I’m sure there are people out there who frown upon the choices I’ve made and the lifestyle I’ve chosen.  But here’s the thing: I’m not living to their standards.  I’m living to my standards.  My standards have […]

Standards, Part 1

These days, I’m happy to call myself a slut.  Well, nearly.  It’s difficult to reverse the stigma that’s been attached to a word.  I know that if I introduce myself by saying, “Hi I’m Jessica and I’m a slut”, I’m more likely to receive negative reactions that positive ones.  I […]