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Is it ok?

Is it ok that I love it when your morning text wakes me up? Is it ok that I want to watch you get ready for your day, every day? Is it ok that I pretend to talk to you any time I’m alone? Is it ok that I always […]

If you get tired of him…

If you’re ever compelled to write someone and ask if they’re getting tired of their current relationship, please don’t. This is in response to a recent message I received. As you might know, I am morbidly curious about how people start conversations with strangers.  I’ve seen a lot.  I’ve learned […]

I think I might be demisexual. So let’s talk.

Let me preface this piece with a bit about labels: Sexuality is fantastically complex.  If labels are used purely to pigeonhole people into certain categories, then we’re really taking away from the beautiful intricacies that come with describing the human experience.  I am focusing on demisexuality in this particular piece, but […]

Show Me Your Tact

Considering all the bad messages I’ve collected, the one trait they have in common is lack of tact.  Allow me to define this magical word: Tact (noun): a keen sense of what to say or do to avoid giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations. a keen sense […]

Your eyes

I can never look them in the eye.  Never more than a fleeting glance. Their eyes distract me.  I start to question myself, them, and what we’re doing.  I think too much.  I feel myself slipping away from the moment. But I love meeting your gaze.  It’s so full of […]

I want to want it

About two months ago I announced my return to the casual scene.  I went there, I met some people, and I came back out.  I think I feel most comfortable on the fringe of that society.  Occasionally I might dip in to check if there’s anything new and interesting floating […]