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Show Me Your Tact

Considering all the bad messages I’ve collected, the one trait they have in common is lack of tact.  Allow me to define this magical word: Tact (noun): a keen sense of what to say or do to avoid giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations. a keen sense […]

Your eyes

I can never look them in the eye.  Never more than a fleeting glance. Their eyes distract me.  I start to question myself, them, and what we’re doing.  I think too much.  I feel myself slipping away from the moment. But I love meeting your gaze.  It’s so full of […]

I want to want it

About two months ago I announced my return to the casual scene.  I went there, I met some people, and I came back out.  I think I feel most comfortable on the fringe of that society.  Occasionally I might dip in to check if there’s anything new and interesting floating […]

“I see you’re with someone”

The vast majority of you are incredibly respectful of my relationship.  I get a lot of messages saying, “You seem really happy”, “He’s lucky to have you”, “I’m glad you found each other” and the like.  Those make me smile.  Thank you.  Hugs. But…there are a few situations I’d like […]