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Dear Sir, The following is my attempt at describing my expectations for our relationship.  I hope that this promotes questions and further discussion.  I am of course open to revision and suggestions in all sections barring removal of items Section A: Hard Limits. Sections A, B, and C  are composed […]

Standards, Part 2

How could I possibly sleep around as much as I do and claim that I have standards?  I’m sure there are people out there who frown upon the choices I’ve made and the lifestyle I’ve chosen.  But here’s the thing: I’m not living to their standards.  I’m living to my standards.  My standards have […]

Standards, Part 1

These days, I’m happy to call myself a slut.  Well, nearly.  It’s difficult to reverse the stigma that’s been attached to a word.  I know that if I introduce myself by saying, “Hi I’m Jessica and I’m a slut”, I’m more likely to receive negative reactions that positive ones.  I […]